Mama Knows Best

While I know it is a topic most men do not like to discuss, I have had the “discussion” with Jeffrey about having my tubes tied and a possible vasectomy for him. It has nothing to do with not wanting more children because I could easily have two more, but with everything going on… financially and emotionally, bringing another child into this world would be the worst idea possible. I am not going to miss taking prenatal vitamins, but I am going to miss the feeling of a baby rolling around in my tummy, occasionally kicking me in the ribs and the sweet smell of a newborn baby.

For those mamas who have already made the decision to go the tubal ligation/vasectomy route, how did you come to your decision?  I am struggling with making a decision and while my reasons are good (to me at least), it is still quite a nerving decision to have to make.